“Left Behind”: Tirelo Kale Breaks Silence After Mpumelelo Mseleku Marries Second Girlfriend First

[Izingane Zes'thembu's Tirelo Kale shares her emotional journey following the rejection of Mpumelelo Mseleku's lobola proposal by her parents.

Image: Instagram]

In a turn of events that has Mzansi glued to their screens and social feeds, Tirelo Kale, the first public girlfriend of Mpumelelo Mseleku, has finally spoken out after being shockingly sidelined in his latest lobola journey.

During the latest episode of Izingane Zes’thembu, fans watched with disbelief as Mpumelelo, the son of polygamist Musa Mseleku, paid lobola for his second girlfriend, 21-year-old Amahle Casela—before Kale, even though Kale has been in the picture much longer.

Now, Kale has taken to Instagram Live to explain the hurt and humiliation, revealing that her parents rejected Mpumelelo’s lobola offer—citing valid concerns around her unemployment, unfinished studies, and their ongoing relationship problems.

"I honestly didn’t see the cracks forming. It really seemed solid until it wasn’t," Kale shared in a candid interview. "The betrayal… wow. I genuinely didn’t expect it."

Many viewers had assumed Tirelo would naturally be the first wife, but cultural tradition dictates that lobola seals status. And since Mpumelelo’s offer was refused by Kale’s family, Casela officially became the first wife by default.

Social media is ablaze with mixed reactions:

• Some say Mpumelelo disrespected Kale by not waiting or fighting harder.

• Others argue that her parents did the right thing, protecting her from a chaotic relationship and an unstable future.

• A few are calling out the entire situation as a new-age circus of polygamy being glamorized on screen.

Insiders close to the show confirm that tensions between Mpumelelo and Kale have been escalating since filming began, with frequent arguments and emotional distance dominating their scenes. Meanwhile, his bond with Casela continues to flourish, leaving Kale feeling increasingly like the forgotten woman.

[Izingane Zes'thembu's Tirelo Kale shares her emotional journey following the rejection of Mpumelelo Mseleku's lobola proposal by her parents.

Image: Instagram]

As viewers continue to dissect each episode and comment section, one thing is clear: what was once seen as a modern polygamy love triangle is now turning into a public heartbreak saga.

💬 Do you think Kale’s parents did the right thing by refusing lobola?
Comment below:

• Yes, they protected her from future pain

• No, they blocked her chance at love and security

• It’s complicated—Mpumelelo should’ve waited

• Polygamy shouldn’t involve public drama like this

~BILLY JAYDEN LOUIS

Sources:
IOL
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